it's simple

I'm a mess sometimes, actually it's not just me, it's life. Life is messy, it's emotional, and because we go so much by emotion, logic flees the scene. Sometimes that what makes things messy is when we either use our head or our heart, and somehow when I start using both of them life gets a little less messy and a bit more sensical (if that's even a word, it is now, I'm running with it) its the balance of your head and heart that bring things together.
I don't really ever listen to me own advice, like ever. I am fantastic at giving great advice, I think I would make a fabulous relationship advisor, however it has completely escaped on how to make my own relationships flourish. However I have gotten very good at something else, breathing (yup that is my secret, the cat is out of the bag) breathing. When nothing else makes ensemble and everything is falling apart, breathing makes a hug difference, we'll it better, without it we would die, so yeah I would say it makes a mold of difference. I get asked all the time how I keep it all together, I don't not really, however I do keep breathing. Taking a deep breath it gives me the sanity to keep going. And really that's all we need is strength to keep going. We don't need superman strength, or anything crazy, we just need something to give us strength and courage to keep going. Just keep be a thing and you'll be fine. It's simple, just keep breathing.